Does anyone out there remember the movie “Made in Heaven” with Timothy Hutton and Kelly McGillis? Timothy Hutton dies in a freak accident, goes to Heaven, and meets Kelly McGillis who has never seen earth, since she took life in the afterworld. During their “thing” Kelly has to come to earth, and is delivered down the hallway of a hospital to her new parents. Timothy finds there is a chance he can go back, and with this in mind, begs the person in charge to send him. After some discussion, and a softening heart the Administrator breaks, and allows his request. But, there is a snag; he is given a decree. He must find Kelly before his thirtieth birthday.
That being said, I have a dear friend who demands anonymity, but who comes to me at least once a month with a story of a dream. She has also agreed to the leaking of this little tidbit. As she describes the passion, I listen with dumbfounded amazement, while she speaks through eyes that are without doubt, someplace else. In the sleeping vision, she and the mystery man are never tangled in the physical – it’s always about true passion; lots of kissing, caressing, holding each other and staring into one another’s eyes. She explains the fervor with almost (I can imagine) the same amount of heat experienced while in the middle of this reverie or maybe it’s me catching the fire. She states, they go to concerts, a movie or merely hang out, talking. However, never just conversing or watching the screen – it’s all done as they hold each other. He examining her soul, she studying his.
As she is of advancing years, the young man in this delight would definitely place her in the “Cougar” category. A person she has never met, yet comes into her night once every thirty days to terrorize her with promises of a forever love, and revealing his ability to satisfy her every whim, physical or otherwise. But, my question is, what does it all mean? I would like to think that like her, this young man, whomever he may be, is also encountering visits from a mystery woman. A lady he could never begin to make plain, if asked, which would explain why everyone he has met falls short of his requirements. Similar to Timothy Hutton in the movie, only our stranger is wandering aimlessly, never understanding his nonfulfillment. The unfortunate fact in this picture is; they will never meet – can never come face to face as they are both out of their time – unknowingly – one just like the other.
Therefore, how long will she be haunted? There is definitely a psychological reason for the torment. I say torment, because no sane person can live hanging on a dream; waiting for the next visit. I don’t proclaim to have any knowledge whatsoever with regard to matters of the mind. Thus, I’d like to sum this up as symbolic of an unresolved issue somewhere in the recesses of her brain. However, in the meantime, and if we agree a nameless young man does exist, these two untimely lovers are doomed to have no future other than wandering in and out of, and disturbing each others slumber. I would love to hear anyone else’s thoughts on the matter.